Likes & Dislikes

Hey fellas,

This is actually inspired by another blogger’s post called Love/Hate by fairylights or as I like to call her F&P. So firstly thanks for letting me use this idea I just it’s a nice and random way for you guys to get to know me and my likes/dislikes better. Haha. Even though I consider myself an open-minded person, despite the claims of some people (ahem mum) Image result for emoji laughing, that doesn’t mean I don’t have things I prefer over others like say sweets over spinach. Sorry spinach lovers it’s just not my cup of tea. Oh talking of which, I love tea!! Image result for tea emoji apple Instead, all it means is that I am open to trying new things including new food and who knows it might become my favourite? But I still have my current favourites and my well dislikes. So let’s get into it, here’s my top 5.


  1. Food and drinks especially tea!!!
  2. My phone/laptop/any electronic really
  3. Horses and horse riding
  4. Acting
  5. Singing/Dancing/any performing arts really



  1. Spinach
  2. Certain types of fish, although I love salmon and fish fingers
  3. Clowns (I used to love them as a kid but then people started dressing up as them in the UK and started harassing and even killing people which put me off them Image result for sad emoji)
  4. Snakes
  5. Spiders

Now these are more like the superficial things because I obviously love my parents and hate bullying for example but I felt like I wanted to keep this post light-hearted for a change. Hope you don’t mind 😉

For this I actually didn’t struggle with the negatives or dislikes but more with the likes because there is so many and I didn’t know which ones made the cut. If you couldn’t tell already they aren’t in order because well frankly some are the same degree if you know what I mean. So I didn’t know how to put them down in order. Haha.

What do you think? Do you have your list of likes/dislikes. Tell me in the comments. Better even why don’t we start like a thread or what’s it called? So you guys all do a post on your top 5 likes/dislikes. How cool would that be? I think we can make it happen! Love you all!!

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx

P.S. Sorry I didn’t post yesterday I actually wrote this yesterday but just forgot to hit the Publish button. I know I know how stupid am I? Haha anyway sorry!!


Finding a lost voice

Heya guys,

Before you start reading the post I just wanted to explain why I didn’t post on Friday. Firstly I will probably only be posting once a week and that will probably be Friday or Monday but since I had already posted that week I didn’t post on Friday. Hope you don’t mind. Now this topic is kinda dark I guess but we need to embrace the light and the dark because are in us whether we admit it or not. It’s like those little cartoons where the person would have an angel on one shoulder telling it to do good and then the devil on the other shoulder telling us that we can be naughty and bad. Sometimes I can’t help myself and I am tempted or convinced by my own demon or devil I guess and I believe the lies he feeds me through my ear but then later I regret it or feel even more horrible. So this is kinda one of these things I guess.

Image result for finding my own voiceBelieve it or not, I am an extremely loud, extroverted person on the outside but inside I am an insecure mess at times and maybe even a bit anxious around people. Oh and let’s not forget totally self-conscious. Now some of you who have read my other posts might know I have struggled in the past with completely opening myself up and not hiding behind a facade for fear of being judged for being weak or a downer. But I am working on breaking down my mask/facade and every day I am a little closer but I think I will always have my down days at times and I think it’s normal and human and people need to accept that and stop judging people for it. But one of the things that I kept up as a facade was generally going along with everything someone else would say. For example, if my friend likes a certain movie and I didn’t I would sometimes pretend I did because I wanted to fit in I didn’t want to have a disagreement or even disagree with her because she might like me a little less for it or maybe judge me for it. So many little things like that added up to make the facade and mask I, kind of, live with now. I always agreed with everyone and never voiced my own opinion even if it differed. I was the girl who could fit in and blend anywhere but not because of who I am but because of who I became. The anxiety of being judged or deserted for being different consumed it and made me a different person to the point where I almost didn’t recognise me. I know it may seem a bit melodramatic to you but it’s the truth and reality for me. I hid my feelings and emotions and opinions just everything really.

And I knew I was living with a mask. I knew subconsciously that this wasn’t me but I guess I didn’t want to admit it because once I do I will have to change. And I don’t know how I didn’t realise this earlier but only a few days ago I realised I didn’t even have a voice, an opinion of my own, not really anyway. The way I realised it was that in my friendship situation which you might know f you read a group but not really, one of my older posts, has caused me to feel quite left out and lonely. Basically to summarise the situation: I am in a trio of friends and it kinda went all great until a few months ago when suddenly the two other friends in my trio started to hang out a lot more and without me. I am not just saying outside of school but even in school. Like even if we had to work as partners we would convince the teachers to let us work as a three. And previously we would save seats for each other in class and talk about everything. But now the other two always work in a pair and not save seats for each other but not me and I kind of feel excluded and the thing is I didn’t do anything to upset them because when I ask them about this they claim nothing has changed and we are all just as close and at first I believed it because we that’s what I always did right agree with others. But then it started to grow and I felt more and more alone and left out so I knew that it wasn’t just me being paranoid of losing a friendship so valuable to me I knew that even if they weren’t doing it on purpose it was definitely there. And this feeling just grew and grew and I kind of snapped out of it in a way a few days ago when it just became so much for me and I admitted to myself that, you know what, despite what they say it’s there and what I am feeling is not just my imagination. I have been caused to feel it even if they disagree with it. Because I do have a voice after all. I feel differently and you know what? It’s okay. I don’t have to agree with everything they say because otherwise I am not myself and they aren’t friends with the real me. They like the mask I put on. I don’t mean just the two others in my trio because I have opened up to them about how I wear a mask figuratively and they know the real me or so I think but my others friends might be friends with the masked girl, not the real me. So I decided that I had to change. I had to own and respect my own voice. If I have a different opinion to someone else then so what? Was this change going to be scary? Heck YES. Even today I started my other friends were saying how they don’t like a certain subject and previously I had always been silent and had no opinion sometimes even agreed with them but this time I stood up for myself because if I don’t look out for myself who will? I disagreed with them and they were shocked. They looked perplexed that I dare have a different opinion. Haha. I just explained that the same way they had their opinion I do too and if mine was different so what? We should all be allowed to have our own view on things and it doesn’t mean we can’t be friends it just means that we disagree on one tiny thing out of many many other things we agree on. It may seem insignificant to you guys but for me it was a huge step towards finding my own voice again and being confident. A step towards breaking down my mask and showing the world the real me. Yeah, it was scary but hey I think it will be worth it! So I have decided to not be silent anymore. I will stand by my voice and won’t let anyone take it away from me ever again. It’s the essence of my personality. It’s my voice and I want it back!

So I get that this is a dark and controversial issue but this is my take on it. I won’t listen to the little devil on my shoulder telling me to compromise and fit in. I will listen to the angel telling me to not hide but voice my opinions. What about you guys? What do you think of this? Love you all and hope you guys had a good start to the week!


Going offline,

Girlalert xxx

What’s changing?

Heya readers,

First things first welcome to everyone who’s new!! I am so so happy that you have joined us and that our little community has grown. I really hope you like it here and I would love to hear your views so don’t be shy with the comments.

So I have been giving this a lot of thought and I think this be this would best decision. 

Unlike most bloggers I don’t have fixed times I blog so most of my readers, you guys, don’t know when to expect another post. And I think that’s been really unfair on my part to do that you. So in order to give this blog some structure and you guys something to look forward as well as teaching myself some discipline (because I could really use it believe me haha) I am going to be trying to blog once maybe rarely twice a week. In the holidays I will probably have some more time so this is just while I am in school. It’s going to be on Fridays or Mondays. I just thought you guys are so loving and supportive and I am so so lucky to have you that I should not string you on like that. Again there might be times I miss it or I post more than twice a week, unlikely but hey you never know, so I just want to apologise for that now. 

Do you think this is a better idea? Please do tell me what you think in the comments because essentially this is about you guys so yeah. Love you all!!

Going offline, 

Girlalert xxx

A single snowflake

A single snowflake floating from the sky

Trying to find its way to earth

Guided by the breath of night

To safety or so it seemed


Happiness, Hope, Passion filled it

As it awaited its descent

Nearing the lights of the city

Twinkling like itself


Up above it all

A picture perfect shot

Seemingly insignificant it looked

But to itself, it was a path it had longed for to lead it to the world of dreams


Deceived by the fog of the sky

The breeze builds and builds. A whirlwind of passion

Overcomes it as it desperately grasps for something

But the air inundates it. Trapped the snowflake surrenders.


Hurt, hoaxed and hopeless

The world of its dreams crushed

Like a slave to its master it was

Forced to submit on a journey to the unknown

In solitude.

Heya guys,

So I know I have been telling some of you guys I had something unusual and exciting planned so *drum roll please* this is it. Hope you aren’t disappointed 😉

I have told some of you guys I was thinking about maybe doing a poetry section on my blog although I had never written a poem and still you guys were so supportive and encouraging that now that I have written one I decided to share it with you guys. Sorry to disappoint some of you but I don’t think I will be doing this reguarly simply because I still find it hard to write them but maybe I will share one rarely when they come to mind.

So sharing this with you guys was a really big step for me scratch that it was a huge leap for me and here’s the reason(s)

Firstly I am super shy about sharing any of my work whether that be an essay or a piece of creative writing because I am always scared I will be judged for it or it won’t be good enough or something. But I decided if I don’t share it with you guys, my supportive little internet family, then with who, right? Also, I mean I stand for being proud of what you have produced or who you are. I stand for being confident and I created this space so we could all be ourselves and connect over things in life so I would be going against my own motto by not sharing it. I can’t expect you guys and shouldn’t promote you guys to be so confident and shameless if I can’t do that to show and empower you as well. If that makes sense? Also despite me being already in the later years of my secondary school education aka I am going to finish school in a couple years, I have never written a poem before!! WHAT? I know how crazy is that!! This is my first poem EVER! But here’s the thing I just couldn’t write poems before. I don’t know what changed but before I just thought poems were stories but broken up into lines that aren’t sentences and then on a larger scale broken up into stanzas that just took up more space. I still don’t know what makes them different from broken up sentences of a story but I think I have finally established that there definitely is a difference. Poems … I don’t know but they make me feel more emotions and more deeply …. in a weird kind of way. I can’t put it into words nor can I give you a definition of a poem because honestly I think the whole beauty of them expressing emotions and little things we take for granted is that we are left speechless and there’s no word to describe what we feel, really, and there’s no word to describe how a poem does that so yeah. I know some of you guys might disagree but hey that just makes sense in my confused brain 🙂  This poem is also very personal to me because it’s about how I was going through and I am still going through a tough phase with some of my friends and I feel so alone sometimes like a single snowflake falling from the sky trying to find its footing before it melts. If you are new and don’t know what I am talking about I explain it all in one of my other posts: A group but not really(a personal story). I just feel like my life is a bit of a mess and I am a bit of a mess right now but I know I will work it out eventually and then when I heard there might be snow in the next couple of days and there already was today in some regions in the UK the picture of a single snowflake came to my mind and words just kind of assembled themselves in my brain and urged me to write them down and before I even realised what I had done, I had written a poem. My first ever poem and it’s about my feelings and emotions and everything I always wanted it to be. So I am so so happy about it. It’s not perfect and I realise that but hey, it’s my first one.

Do feel free to give me some advice and feedback in the comments. Love you all and thanks for staying so patient with me while I sort through some things. I always find it useful and almost therapeutic to write it all down on my blog and then I find some people relate and it just makes the world seem a little more friendly and a little less lonely and assures me that you don’t have to be perfect because, in reality, no one is 🙂

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx

I am so so sorry!

Hey guys,

I just wanted to give you a heads-up that firstly I am still alive and I wanted to apologise for not having posted in a while. This week has been quite stressful and time-pressuring as well as emotional. So even when I had like a spare half an hour I sat down but unlike usually I didn’t even know how to begin to explain things or talk about my feelings as openly as I usually do. I think it’s just a phase because I went through it before and I will probably recover soon. It’s probably just a writer’s block and I know that’s no excuse which is why I am so sorry. Until then I thought I can’t just leave you guys in the dark. I will definitely be posting soon again so watch out on your reader in the next couple of days! See you in a few days! Love you all and thanks for understanding.

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx

Safety net

I think almost everyone has one it’s all nice and rosy in life because you have like a back-up UNTIL you become one. That’s when I realised that everyone has one, heck even I probably had one, even though I am ashamed to admit it now, but it got me thinking is it really fair to the person who is your safety net?


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Okay so maybe I should back up a bit. For a while now I realised that I don’t really have a best friend like most people do instead I have many close friends who occasionally hang out with me. I always felt I was missing out on something and I just didn’t know why. I still don’t know why and I am still confused as to why this is happening to me. What did I ever do to deserve this? I explained this all in one of my recent posts: Not good enough am I? But it never occurred to me why some people were friends with me or why some would only really talk to me on certain days. But then a few days ago, like a said previously I am in a trio of friends and the other two seem to be a bit closer, one of them literally didn’t talk to me the whole day until the second friend in the trio left so there was only me and her and only then did she start talking to me properly and we had a laugh and it was all fun and games. But at home, it dawned on me that I was her second choice and the only reason she talked to me was because the other friend had already left. I wouldn’t say I was her safety net because sometimes we talk even though the other friend is there but it almost seemed like it. But then I started noticing it with others who I am close with but maybe not as close as the two in my trio and I noticed how I was their safety net for sure and they didn’t even try to conceal it or hide it. It was so obvious and I wondered why I had never noticed it before. I guess I knew somewhere but never admitted it for fear of it being true so just lived a lie. It’s one of these things that once you see them you can’t unsee them and you start seeing them everywhere or in my case with almost everyone. It’s also one of the ways I found out who my true friends are and who really wanted to be friends with not just as their Plan B or a back-up but truly valued my friendship.

Now yes I admit even I probably had one without noticing that one friend that I would talk to thinking I just barely “see” her but really I only “saw” her when I didn’t see my immediate close friends. And to a degree, I think everyone had one or two of those kinds of friends and I think it’s become normal because we are so used to it by now. It’s become a habit for everyone to have a safety net. It’s a way of survival amongst society because you don’t want to be seen as friendless or a “loner” but I also think just because we are used to it doesn’t mean it’s right especially when the person who is your safety thinks you guys are more than that, like proper friends, not just a second option. You can’t lead someone on like that and hurt their feelings. We need to be less selfish and look around and see and acknowledge those people and let them go. Let them have their own lives and friends which they deserve. We need to put our feelings aside for once and understand theirs and put ourselves in that position. I know it’s a lot to ask because frankly, I didn’t even know I had a safety net. I didn’t even understand the concept until I became one. It’s hard for anyone to understand who hasn’t been in that situation. I am going to try to change and I know it’s going to be hard but I hope you guys will too. Firstly I think I will do what I should have done long ago. This is for all my past safety net friends: 

I am so so sorry that I lead you on and that I let you have hope in me. I am sorry that I seem to have used you and only talked to you when I didn’t have immediate friends nearby. I am sorry that I never acknowledged your feelings and only blindly cared about mine. I am sorry that I was so selfish and lastly I am sorry for not understanding you or realising what I put you through. I can’t change the past only learn from it but I can change the future and I give you my word that I will no longer be like this. I will no longer be blind and ignorant. I will change.

Sorry, it was a long post but I just had to let it all out. What do you guys think of this? Have you ever been a safety net friend or do you have one without realising? Love you all!

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx


The Sunshine Blogger Award

Yay!! I have been nominated for my first ever sunshine blogger award!! This has honestly made my day heck week! Thank you so much fairylightsandpolaroids. I absolutely love your blog and you guys should go check her out!!

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The Rules!

  • Thank the person(s) who nominated you
  • Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you
  • Nominate 11 blogs to receive the award and write them 11 questions

The Questions!

If you could read only one author for the rest of your life, who would it be?

Hmm well the thing is I haven’t read a book in a while and the author I am thinking of writes a few childish books and only has a few books out but I will go with her anyway. The last author I was/ still am obsessed with is Sarah Crossan. Her books are just amazing especially the Breathe series, a series of dystopian books. To read my review you guys can visit my bookshelf!

What is one item in your closet that you don’t understand why you bought?

I have many actually. A few dresses especially pencil dresses which I thought would look nice but now I think how in the world did I ever think those would suit me?

What is the last song you listened too?

Probably River by Eminem and Ed Sheeran or possibly Rewrite the Stars by Zac Efron and Zendaya. I am not too sure but both are equally as good.

Last book you read?

Actually, the last book I read was on my kindle or e-reader and I think it was one of the books of the Shadow Demon saga by Sarra Cannon but I don’t really remember it was a while ago.

Last movie you watched?

Oh well, this is embarrassing but the last movie I watched was Mamma Mia on Netflix because everyone said it was a classic but I never watched it when I was young so yeah. I absolutely love it by the way and apparently, there is going to be a sequel movie!!

What do you look for in a friend? Why?

Umm, well definitely patience simply because it takes time for me to start trusting someone and even then it takes time for me to open up and tell them about things. I also love friends who are good listeners and you can just talk about stuff for hours without any awkward pauses or something. I love having a laugh as well and oh definitely to be loyal like I don’t want them to talk badly about me to others neither do I want them to talk badly about people to me who they actually call friends. In simple terms, if you say you are a friend to someone you shouldn’t talk badly about them.

If you had to be someone else in this world, who would you be (fictional characters not included 🙈)?

This is a difficult one… but if I had to choose one I would say Zendaya because not only is she stunning but she’s a feminist, stands up to bullying, down-to-earth and just all around an amazing person. I also really like Drama and Acting so it would amazing to have a successful career like hers.

What is the most positive thing you have gotten out of blogging?

I would say getting to know other bloggers and connecting about life’s struggles and problems and knowing that you aren’t alone and you aren’t the only person who feels a certain way. It really boosts your confidence.

If you could be related to one celebrity, who would it be?

I don’t know actually. I think I would love to be related to Selena Gomez just because I love her music and she seems to love her family so so much!

Current obsession/s?

I am so embarrassed to say this but probably Netflix. I know I am behind the times when I say this because this series first came out like 10 years ago I think but I love love the Vampire Diaries and also Friends but I have been obsessed with that for years now so no big difference there. Haha.

Why do you blog?

Honestly, I just love connecting and relating to others and just releasing all my feelings and thoughts without being scared of being judged so basically I can be myself in my little corner of the big web.

Drum roll, please. My nominations are: 



gold wrappings

gracie chick

don’t give a jam



Defining Yellow

Maddy’s Digital Diary



I think the questions were really interesting and thought-provoking as well as random so my readers could learn more about me so I think I will give the same ones to my nominees. I can’t wait to read your posts guys!!

Thank again to fairylightsandpolaroids for the award. Love you all!

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx

Double faced

Okay so this is one of the things I hate most: when people I trusted with secrets or even my feelings turn out to be two-faced. I mean when you get to know someone and start growing close to them over the years, there’s this unspoken bond of trust and reliability linking the two people so you start sharing some things because there are no signs that people may have ill intentions. There’s no neon sign hanging over their head reading “Backstabber” so you just have to go with your gut feeling and after years if getting to know each other you would think that you know them pretty well. You would think “I can trust them! They won’t be like the others, they’ll be loyal.” But then a bomb goes up in our life when you find out that all this time they have been backstabbing you by spilling your secrets, confessing your feelings or even talking badly behind your back. To your face, they will be all innocent, kind and bubbly but then behind your back when they think you are out of ear-shot the truth comes out. And it just hurts you that years of friendship go down the drain. But one thing I would look out for is the way they talk about others to you because you never know if they talk the same way about you. I found that the people that talked badly about others to me and made me feel awkward when put in that situation are those who also talked badly about me behind my back.

I used to blame myself for not seeing it before or that maybe I did something to make them behave like this. That maybe I am just not good enough. But then I realised after years of blaming myself for every single double-faced person I had met, and believe it, it’s a lot, that it’s not my fault. I couldn’t blame myself for everything that they were or had become. They chose to be like this whether it was me affected or someone else it was still the same. I think it stems from their own insecurities. Because they don’t want to be picked on or be the victim they victimize others but in such a way that it hurts even more and I think they might feel a bit of remorse so they continue to hang out with you but really it’s just to squeeze more information out of you which they can use against you later. And afterwards when you find out you feel betrayed, open and vulnerable.

I found that the best way to deal with such people if to just confront them, don’t care if it will make them awkward but they are dishonest and false and just a liar and the least you deserve is an explanation. Still remember not just to do the same about them no matter how tempting it may feel, don’t stoop to their level, be civil and just talk to them about it. And if you aren’t the person being victimized but the recipient then just stand up to them saying this is wrong and this isn’t how a friend should behave. Stop the chain reaction. Do something about it, don’t just let the bullying go on and worst of all don’t be a part of it.

At times like these, it’s the perfect opportunity to reconsider which people you really want in your life, because it definitely isn’t double-faced ones. During occasions such as these, you find out who your true friends are because they will stop the chain and talk to it about it and make sure you are okay. They will stick by you and be supportive whilst everyone is gossiping.

But most important remember not to play their game out of revenge or anger because that will get you nowhere and you will hate yourself or it later and regret it. You don’t want to stoop to their level. What are your guy’s views on this? Have you ever met a double-faced person? How did you deal with it? Let me know in the comments below.

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx


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Hey guys,

When I was on holidays over winter break with my family, we often stay up really late in the night sometimes even through the night. Why? Well the place we go to has beautiful sunsets and sunrises. That got me thinking, why don’t I dedicate a post to it?

So I am quite an analytical person by nature I think. Don’t confuse it with school, I am horrible at analysing poems and pieces of writing but in every-day life, I think almost everything is symbolic of something or has a hidden deeper, meaning and our descriptions of those things only just scratch the surface. Yeah, you guessed it two examples of that are sunrises and sunsets.

So let’s start with the things that actually starts the day, as well as coffee of course, that’s also sunrises. I think that symbolically speaking sunrises indicate not just the start of a new day but also another chance to make things right if you had a fight with someone. It’s like a fresh start, a clean slate. If you had a bad day yesterday, it’s like reassurance that the bad things are left behind and today can be a better day. It’s the opportunity learn from your previous mistakes and to not do them again. In one word it’s hope!

And now let’s skip the rest of the day to the sunset. I think that sunsets are incredibly beautiful. The streaks of colours blend together and slice them sky painting a breath-taking portrait. And it’s also super romantic because movies and tv shows often show couples doing walking around during twilight or the sunsets. Sunsets can also symbolise that if you had a bad day no matter how long it may seem it will end and you will eventually have your peace. It symbolises the completion of a day whether that may be a good one or a bad it will end nonetheless.

So those are my interpretations and thoughts. I find them both equally lovely for different reasons so I would find it hard to choose which is my favourite. One works better for some situations and moods than the other one. But I am going to ask you anyway, which one do you guys like most?

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx


My dream house! – Blog Collab

Hey everybody,

So first I have a piece of good news and no not just that it is the weekend but guys and this is a big deal for me. We have 40 members guys (excluding me). Our little corner of the website is growing and I so so happy about it. When I first started the blogging I mostly did it for others but also a little for myself but now I find that by sharing my personal experiences many people feel more open to talk about their own and we can discuss our lives and the problems in it together and figure it out. I feel like more people can relate to me and it’s a platform for everyone to be themselves and just rock at it. I wanted this to be a little safe corner for people where they can read my posts and be like “I  totally felt like this” and “Turns out I am not the only one” because it also reassuring when you are not the only one who went through something and had to deal with it. It’s like reassurance that no one is perfect and you don’t have to try to be. So welcome to everyone who’s new and welcome back to anyone who has already been with me. Thank you all for supporting so much.

One of my favourite things about blogging is also to get to know other bloggers and connect with them and talking about supportive: I have decided to do a blog collab with FairyLightsAndPolaroids the talented and lovely writer behind a wonderful blog. Our topic is like the title gives away: My dreamhouse!

So I am actually one of those girls that grew up watching Barbie and then later with my little cousins and nieces I ended up watching Life in the Dreamhouse, a spin-off of Barbie, against my choice might I add. But no matter how old I get I always want a wardrobe like hers. I know I know I can’t possibly have that large a wardrobe but I still want a large wardrobe a walk-in wardrobe with lots of colours and all my shoes on one side. Filled to the brim will different types of styles of shoes and having one corner all for my jewellery sorted into its categories neatly like all my bracelets in one place and necklaces in another, of course, untangled because it’s a pain to untangle them. In one of the episodes I remember in her wardrobe was like a machine that matched everything in your closet to create millions of beautiful stylish outfits and I would love to have something like that to chose my outfits from, it would make things so much easier and I would have to spend less time in front of my wardrobe pulling out my hair in frustration trying to find a coordinated outfit. LOL. So my wardrobe is the only real specific type of furniture I have really given a lot of thought about in my dream house. Of course, I wouldn’t want my clothes and my bedroom to be nearly as pink because well I like pink but I also like other colours. I would probably want a huge bed with a TV hanging across from it. Possibly drapes around the side to create a majestic effect. It would probably be out of wood, mahogany maybe, and have white drapes but I don’t know yet. And I have always wanted my bedroom to be a circular room with lots of windows but high in the air so not many people could look in it. Kind of like a turret so I don’t want my house to be a tower itself but maybe have a small turret coming off of it with only space for two rooms. My bedroom and a bathroom. It should only rise one floor above the rest of the house. So it’s almost like my own private floor but it’s so big it looks too empty. On the first floor would probably be extra bedrooms with en-suite bathrooms you know if I decide to have kids or have guests over and a gym maybe a playroom for the kids? Then on the ground floor, I would obviously have a kitchen made of beautiful granite counters and lights that illuminate the bottom floor. Stairs from the kitchen would lead to a wine cellar and I would have a kitchen island in the middle with stools on one side so for snacks I could sit there or for casual meals. For proper meals with other families, there would be a huge dining room with a chandelier and a long table. That room will probably be the most expensive looking with beautiful carvings in the wood furniture surrounding it. The living room will be housing a beautfiul couch and plenty of colourful pillows. All around would be plenty of bookshelves filled with books to the brim. But and here’s the special thing. One of them would open into a private study room for me. It will have a hammock attached to the ceiling, a beanbag in the corner and a small window seat like in Victorian houses, where I can read, think or write maybe even blog 😉 Attached to the living room would be an indoor movie theatre so I can get the cinematic experience from home.  There would also be an indoor pool with a bar and overhead lights. There will be a conservatory looking out into the garden. I would probably sit there with friends or family and just enjoy the view. The garden itself will be massive with tennis courts, a jacuzzi, a natural looking out-door swimming pool (not a typical size like a rectangle or something) and a sauna next to the swimming pool. A fountain would be in the middle of garden enclosed in a circle by hedges obviously with gaps to walk in between. They would be manicured and neatly trimmed. Kind of like a maze only you will find your way in and out easily. Attached to the house would be a small porch where there is an open fireplace so sit and relax with hot chocolate or tea or something or read in the late summer afternoon sun.

The house itself as you can imagine is a mansion, a house with lots of history but that beautiful old look to it. The inside would be modern and chic though and the garden always looking its best. It would probably be situated near the coast somewhere not one of those beach houses, further away from that but still near neighbours but in the countryside on a hill facing the ocean maybe so if you took the car you would in the beach in no time. I don’t know if such a place exists but I wanna live there. The front door will have steps leading down to the driveway which will be like a C and on the backside, there will be the conservatory in the middle but you can also walk down two flights of stairs flanking each side of the house from the first floor, from the balcony that surrounds most of the rooms.

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These are kind of like the stairs down each side at the back. And that kind of turret only rising up another floor oh, of course, those kinds of balconies.



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And these right of stairs leading up to the front door and then where the lavender bushes are there would be the driveway shapes like a C but turned 90 clockwise.

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And this is what I meant by the natural outdoor pool.




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This is the kind of Victorian window seat I mean




And this is the secret study I meant behind one of the bookshelves.





So that’s my dream house guys. I know it will never actually come through or that I will be able to afford it but hey it’s nice to dream. What things do you like about my dream house and what things would you change? Let me know in the comments below.

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx