This post is just generally about how I feel movies affect us. I have been thinking about this for quite a long time now and some of you might disagree but I just wanted to tell you how I feel.
In my opinion, some movies can give you wrong expectations. Some examples:
In some movies or books, boyfriends are being really romantic towards their girlfriends or the other way round. So, this can make us (girls and boys) expect the same from our boyfriends and girlfriends. Sorry, but this can sometimes really be expecting too much or it can annoy the other person in your relationship. Even I like “GirlOnline”, but it’s just one of the many examples. Like when Noah is all romantic towards Penny.(Book)
Also, in some movies the crush in the end realizes that he/she actually likes the not so cool girl. Sorry, don’t want to disappoint you, but in real life it is mostly the other way round. So if I should link that to a movie then I would say “Radio Rebel” although it’s a great story and nice film, it is just another example.
So now that I have written this you might think:
“What is she talking about?”
“Is she judging me?”
“Why is she interfering in my love life?”
Well, the reason for that is simple ; I know how it feels when someone wants you to be just like someone else and keeps on pushing you. To conclude all of this: Give your boyfriend or girlfriend a break. Let them breathe!! Give them space!! And most important of all : Like them and accept them just the way they are!!
This post is probably one of the most important posts I will ever write on this blog. The main reason I have set up this blog is to tell people how important it is to be yourself. All I ask for is to be yourself. I like to say to myself “Be yourself, not somebody else”. I have thought about this many times. I just didn’t know how to put this into words. Every time someone tries to make me feel low I just think, I might be a bit clumsy but I am the best at being me and I am not going to change that. But don’t get me wrong, we as humans, do learn from other people. For example our style in clothing is certainly unique but it actually is just a combination of all the different clothing styles we have seen and liked on other people. So in short do learn from other people, but don’t copy them in everything they do. Don’t be their follower or minion! Be your own fab self!
We are the best at being ourselves, so why should we change. If people don’t like you for who you are, try not to care, because many people in this world would like you for who you are. You are special, unique and extraordinary. Don’t forget that 😉 Be yourself!!!!!! 🙂 Tell me how you feel about this post in the comments.
I read this amazing book by Zoella called “Girl online” and it inspired me to write about facing your fears as well. Almost everyone is afraid of something and the purpose of this blog is to talk about them, because I’m sure you’re not the only one feeling this way.
I have a big phobia of spiders and snakes and a few days ago, I had to go into our old shed, full of spiders and spider-webs. It was scary 😦 In other words I had to face my fear. Sometimes facing your fears won’t change the fact that you are scared of it but it can definitely make you feel a bit stronger. So, definitely try it and comment on how you did 😉 Hope this post inspired you to do that.
This post is going to be bout how I feel about things in life and I hope I’m not the only one feeling this way 😦
At this stage of my life, everything is changing around me and the reason for it : Puberty and secondary school.
– everything you do gets commented on
– how cool you are
– what you wear on non uniform day
– who talks to you
– do you have a boyfriend
– are you a nerd or cool girl
-who your friends are
And I just feel that until now, almost none of these things actually mattered. I feel that this is ruining other people’s lives. Getting bullied, for example. Everything is changing even when you don’t want it to change. Surely, I can’t be the only one who thinks this way?! How do you feel about this post? Pls, be honest. Comment below 🙂
I have thought about writing a blog for a long time and am finally starting it. I am not very good at English, so feel free to correct me. This blog is going to be about my daily life situations and how to handle them. I myself have many difficulties with that, so this should hopefully help others like me!! 🙂 I might not write every day but I’ll try.