We all know them. They are tough to go through and mostly it is nice to have your best friend or just a close friend with you. Well, I hate to tell you but if you haven’t had them yet then you aren’t lucky but unlucky, my dear friend. And this is because when you are younger then hard times tend to be less dramatic then when you are older. So if you get them when you are young then you can get used to them. Another point is that when you are older and your life has gone butter-smooth so far and then suddenly you are surprised by one. In some cases you really don’t know how to handle the situation and you might (there is a slim chance) go into depression. And believe me you really don’t want to experience that, not that I have had it but you know everyone knows that lives of people that are depressed usually don’t have a happy ending 😦
Hard times can occur for many different reasons. The range is from doing bad in school to your boyfriend or girlfriend dumping you heartlessly. No matter what it is, it must have affected you quite a lot or you wouldn’t go through what you are going through. And if someone tries to make your life harder than it already is, don’t try and compete back cos they are not worth your time and energy, just ignore them, block them out of your system as if they never existed. Believe me it helps!!! and you will and can get over them.
Well guys, back to what I said right at the beginning of this post. At times like these, you WILL need a friend, even if you think you are independent and strong and get through anything. I hate to break it through you, but you are probably wrong. Of course there are the occasional exceptions. The majority of people will need a friend, a shoulder to cry on, a wise person, someone who you can open up to, someone to support you and someone who likes you for who you are. And if you don’t want to tell someone you know then tell me. Cos even if it is a secret I respect it is not my secret and why the heck would I go round telling everybody a secret which belongs to someone I don’t know anyway?? That would be weird!!! Anyway, open up to me, tell me how you feel, treat me like a friend cos I am your friend. Together we can figure something out. Always see the positive, remember?
Love all of you and thx for supporting me
I think it is celebration time. Do u know why……..Well let me tell you. Today it has nearly been 3 whole months since I first started this blog. This may seem small to you but it means a lot to me. This blog is supposed to be a place where you can be yourself and totally honest I also created this blog to tell you about the harsh but sometimes sweet truth of life. Okay I’ve got to stop soon, this is sounding like PSHE (shudder) No offence to anyone who likes that subject. Anyway I haven’t got many followers and I would appreciate some support or advice of your own. My e-mail is firstname.lastname@example.org Feel free to e-mail me anytime. At least people are looking at this blog eventhough I would appreciate followers for support and because then I know that this blog actually means something to somebody else than me. Thx. 🙂
Do you know this feeling like you are being left behind or out? Well, sometimes I have felt like that. This post will probably only be understood by people who have ever felt excluded.
Have you ever felt as if everything around you is changing so fast and you just can’t keep up with it, like trends.? It feels like a top is IN for a minute and then suddenly it’s OUT.If you know what I mean.
The way I got out of that hell-hole was by opening up. For most of my life I was pretty shy and over years (not that I am that old, in fact I am just in secondary school) I figured out that it was a mistake. You have to be proud of who you are, because you are SOMEBODY. Nobody is or will ever be perfect so don’t try it but it is sometimes better to change a little bit. Anyway, if you feel like you are being left out or your friends don’t seem to like you as much nowadays, then try to find new and better friends who like you for who you are. It is never impossible. Just never give up and always stand tall. Okay 😉
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Hope your summer hols have been amazing and if they aren’t finished then enjoy the last few days. Well … my holidays have been SPLENDID. I really enjoyed a break and to be honest I think I sort of needed one. I needed time when I could just throw myself on a sofa and watch a movie. Do you know that feeling?? Well I made a great recovery how about you?? Let me know in the comments below. I might actually turn this into a diary of a teenager as well as a problem solving blog. what do you think?? Obviously I won’t be able to write every day but yeah. Tell me if you like this blog, if I should continue and just if this blog helps you and inspires you as well solves some of your problems. like you might be bullied at school. Basically tell me what you think of this blog. If you don’t want to write in the comments because of your identity then e-mail me. Yes, you heard right I got an e-mail. It’s : email@example.com
Feel free to write to me whatever you want and whenever you want. Even if it involves problems. I am here to help, remember?? you can be open. Regarding writing to me to tell me what you think about this blog, just be totally open guys. I appreciate honesty.
Oh yeah, nearly forgot. even if there is anything you would like me to write about without or with mentioning your name/blogger-name just e-mail me or write it in the comments.
Thx and if your holidays haven’t finished enjoy the rest of them!! 😉