Changing for the better

Hiya everyone,

What were you up to this steaming hot summer? Well, I went to my favorite place in the entire world. And no, before you ask, it’s not home. But I ain’t gonna tell you where I went either cos’ that would surely reveal my identity and we don’t want that now, do we? πŸ˜‰ Anyway I am so so sorry that I haven’t been regular on my blog for quite a long while now. So I guess this post is also to tell you guys: I’M STILL ALIVE!!!! Β The reason for my absence is really quite simple, if you live in England and go to secondary school here then you would surely by now know that at the end of each year you will have end-of-year exams for almost every single subject. And let me tell you when you studying over 20 subjects then it’s kinda hard to get free time cos’ YOU WILL BE REVISING MONTHS IN ADVANCE TO JUNE!! I know it’s not an excuse but I also kinda didn’t have too much time cos’ I wanted to enjoy my last few days of lower school with my class, as we completely get reshuffled and some of my friends left at the end of Year 8/ beginning of Year 9. Really sad I know 😦 Anyway let’s begin this post properly.

I guess you could say that this post is linked but almost contradicting my earlier post about “BEING YOURSELF!”. So… basically, let me break it down for you. Changing for the better doesn’t mean that you still can’t be yourself. Remember what I said about learning from others makes us unique, we choose the skills we like about others and learn to use them ourselves. The combination of those skills from different people makes us unique. So changing for the better is basically learning a new skill from another person and adding it to your personality, if you know what I mean. So you’re still yourself, you just changed a little bit FOR THE BETTER. And remember completely copying someone in all their skills and trying to be just like them is neither changing for the better nor being yourself. Also,Β you are still being yourself and if changingΒ makes you happy and you think you can become a better person out of it then why not go for it? You are not changingΒ for anyone else but only for yourself, that’s the most important thing. I hope that didn’t confuse you too much πŸ˜‰ If you still have any question then just drop me an e-mail. You can find my e-mail address at the bottom of almost every single post or on the contact me page. oh and guys pls remember I made this e-mail for you guys, so don’t be shy just talk to me.

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx

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