Update: I am alive

Heya everyone,

I don’t even know what to say to make up for this and I know this happened a few times already but some things just aren’t in my control. I am sorry that I couldn’t post regularly these past few weeks. But before you judge me please let me explain.

Basically, as you guys know I usually try to post every Monday. But I haven’t been able to because I was on holiday. I thought I would have more time because we weren’t planning on going anywhere and I thought I could post even more like maybe thrice a week but then out of the blue, my parents suggested we go to a really nice place, where it’s super warm and sunny. And I thought it would be a nice change from the English cloudy and gloomy weather. So the next day I packed my bags and we left that morning. Literally, the day after we discussed it because my parents are kinda impulsive and last minute like that. And I honestly love them for it so it’s not their fault but because of the restricted weight limit on planes I couldn’t bring my laptop and I can’t download the WordPress app on my phone because it’s quite an old phone. So for the past 2 or even 3 weeks, I haven’t been able to post and although I feel horrible about it, there was nothing I could do. And I know that you guys probably think that I am not dedicated enough to my blog and that this is an excuse but it’s not and I love this blog and am genuinely sorry. I know that I have already disappointed a few of you and you have decided to leave this little community and I am sorry that I let you down but all I can do is say that I will at least warn you guys next time. The good news is that tomorrow you guys can expect another post. To those that have remained first I want to thank you for sticking around and second I hope you like the post tomorrow.

Hope you have a great day!! ❤

Going offline,

Girlalert xxx



  1. yesmoreblogs · April 15, 2018

    Don’t worry about it I’d rather go on holiday aswell 😂


    • girlalert · April 15, 2018

      Haha it’s not that though although I enjoyed it I wanted to blog but there literally was no way I could xx

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  2. LiveNotExist · April 15, 2018

    Welcome back and hope you had a lovely vacation 🌞😉Wordpress doesn’t go anywhere but hope you might have some pictures to share with us???😃


    • girlalert · April 15, 2018

      Oh thx I would but I am anonymous and I am in most pictures or the pictures would give away where I went and possibly who I am xx

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  3. Rhiana · April 17, 2018

    Hope you had a lovely time away! If people can’t appreciate that hey, sometimes you just can’t blog under certain circumstances, they don’t deserve to read this raw, honest, beautiful blog that is a haven for many, me included. I get that you’re anonymous but where did you go? No pics or anything, but I like hearing about new places! xoxo


    • girlalert · April 17, 2018

      Thx so much!! I really needed it with so much stress from school! Yeah I was literally restricted even if I wanted to I couldn’t and though I ost at least like 10 followers from that there’s nothing I can do about it unfortunately. But thx for understanding. It makes me feel so much better!!

      And thx so much for the compliment like I don’t think anyone has ever described my blog as “heaven”. That’s literally made my day!! And I am grinning so much right now. I am really glad you like it!
      Um well let’s say it was really warm and somewhere near the Mediterranean coast. I have loads of pics but lots would give away where I went or I am in them so it would give away who I am. Haha. I would say where exactly I went but not many go there so it could easily be traced back to me 🙂 sorry xxxx


      • Rhiana · April 18, 2018

        I’m so glad I could make your day! Sounds like a beautiful holiday destination. I can’t believe you lost 10 followers for not posting for a little bit! Everyone needs a break sometimes, even if you can’t control it – and people don’t leave you in the dust if there are exams at stake! It’s crazy that people will react differently depending on the circumstances. I get the stress levels are probably pretty high, and from this end it seems like the holiday couldn’t have come at a better time for you. I won’t leave you and so many people love your blog! Forget about those haters. You seem like you are a strong person and so inspirational to others. Never forget that. xoxox

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      • girlalert · April 18, 2018

        It was absolutely stunning! Yeah but I mean they follow me for my content and if I didn’t post reguarly then they might be disappointed I dunno but I am just happy most of you guys stuck around for me and understood. I agree everyone deserves a break and sometimes other things get in the way that we can’t put before the blog because it’s important for our future. Yeah I really needed the holiday and it was great because I grew even closer with my parents and met some really nice people! You are actuallly one of the nicest people I know like you literally made me feel so much better already. Anyone who knows you is blessed and better not ruin it because you seem to happy and kind. Wow I mean I never thought anyone would say I was “inspirational” wow thank you just wow! Haha I am like so stunned right now. xxxx


      • Rhiana · April 18, 2018

        Thank you! You are too, and it’s people like you (ok, so just you 😂) that give me motivation to keep blogging! I’m probably going to struggle adjusting to year 7 next year, and that might mean not posting as regularly, but it’s nice to know that bloggers who enjoy my writing (I think they do at least…) will hopefully stick around. Sometimes life just needs to be put on pause, yeah? xxxx


  4. girlalert · April 19, 2018

    Wow I am happy to have such an influence on your blogging life that is truly amazing and wonderful to hear that I am making a difference! 🙂 ❤ Yeah I feel like I am not going to lie you might especially if you don't know anyone but hey neither did I and I am okay now and it seems like a big deal and it was back then but the older you get the more you realise that your priorities change onto (no offence) more important thigs like you future so even if it doesn't work out immediately have patience and it will and also if not then it's not that bad because things are going to change so much that within a few months this will seem so insignificant. So just hang in there and you'll be fine I promise 😉

    yeah totally I love my blog but sometimes things in the actual present and in real life rather than online take priority but that doesn't mean I am neglecting it. It just means that my future and life and health is slightly more important and it always will be. xxx


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